As someone mentioned earlier, I would really like to know what these men's wives are thinking about the incident. Let's see. One wife is now a widow and has a 3 year old daughter to take care of with a single income. The other went from a comfortable enough retirement that allowed one to go to movies with her husband to now being without her husband for the rest of her life and facing huge legal fees, not to mention the possible civil suit down the road. Both families are destroyed. Can't imagine what it was like to tell your three year old child that daddy is never coming home again.