No I'm not, at least not in English. Perhaps in Urdu. You can cause a thing to happen and not actually "deserve" the result, as I must have said... a dozen or more times on this thread. I mean, if you sass a pissed off hitman for stealing your cab, you don't "deserve it" if he shoots you, but you did cause the reaction, he wasn't going to shoot other than in reaction. What did I say on the first page? A wise man treats a stranger with respect, for he may be looking in the face of an enemy. If the clerk at McDonald's calls Hannibal Lector a douche, he doesn't deserve to be dinner, but he may have caused exactly that. We aren't talking about what the victim deserved, just about what he contributing to causing and how if he'd been thinking more clearly he might have avoided.