Well, that's the anniversary. It all depends on how well my sister-in-law is doing and how much my wife really wants my support. I have a good enough relationship with my sister-in-law to support her on my own. She's been divorced herself and thinks her sister is crazy. (They're both crazy) In the mean time, I have a free apartment at my disposal in a hot in-town neighborhood. It's owned by my wife's good friend who is now married to a successful younger man who has a nice home and a job in the distant northwest suburbs. It was actually my wife's idea for me to spend some time there for my own mental health. Our friend is the owner and has a tenant downstairs. It's a fabulous place and I should take advantage of it before she decides to sell. It's worth over a million. The owner's unit has been expanded into a duplex with a fabulous master's suite complete with jacuzzi, massage room and a balcony over her garden. She also has a wine cellar stocked with her ex's collection. I'm often tempted to just start arguments for no reason that will always end in "So why don't you just spend some time over at Jeanette's place." What am I waiting for? I haven't had sex in eight months. I might not wait until Chanukah.