Anyone else experience this? Over the years, I've seen a pattern in my marriage. I'll use the past 12 months as an example: Last spring, I launched some projects around the house that really got me moving and I dropped 10 pounds in a month (215-205). Loving the results, I go back into an excercise groove after the projects and got down to almost 190 around Thanksgiving. The whole time, I gently nudged the mrs. to join me in eating more sensibly and adding more movement/exercise to our lives. Well, she never joined. The Holidays hit and I was derailed. I've done OK and have only crept back up to 195, but have also lost some strength gains. Regardless, around late Feb / early March, she decides to go crazy and she's now down to almost what she weighed before our first kid (110lb - Yea for me!). Guess what - she's now trying to nudge me to join her, but I haven't. Why? I want to. I'm sure she wanted to last summer/fall as is evidenced by her commitment this spring. Is there some weird couple dynamic that keeps some from exercising together? I wonder if I should bother to figure it out or if we should just split the year in half and keep getting in better shape one at a time. I have a coworker that goes thru the same exact thing. Any one else?