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Old 01-11-2013, 01:49 PM   #81
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"Irresponsible" has many facets to it, economic being one of them, and having 12 dependent children = irresponsible.

So, as long as they are not economically dependent as the "creepege" occurs, you are OK with it. I too, am all for assisting those who have lived "responsibly," providing for themselves and their family, and then find themselves suddenly thrust in a crisis situation where they need temporary help.

In this case, however, I think if you looked more closely, I would bet that you would find a history of dependency on the government that just didn't suddenly occur when her total brood of 15 was whittled down to 12, and her "fiance" got arrested.

I would bet.
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Old 01-11-2013, 01:57 PM   #82
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Contrary to what you believe...

There are many stories of people who are raised in large poverty stricken famlies that rise to success.
Yes there are many such stories that you referred to. However, there are many more tragic stories where children raised in similar situations fail or never reach their potential.

Here is a recent report of children in poverty.
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The U.S. Census Bureau reports on U.S. poverty rates as they relate to children and their family status. They report on individuals under 18 who are in a household by birth, marriage or adoption but are not themselves a householder. The poverty rate within this group of individuals is 21.4 percent. That’s 15.4 million children. It grows further distressing when one considers that children under six have a poverty rate of 24.5 percent. That’s 5.8 million children. Simply put, one in four young children in the U.S. are being born and raised in poverty.
http://usccbmedia.blogspot.com/2013/...of-nation.html

From the same link here is data on children being raised by single mom families
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The type of household in which a child is raised is a factor. Around 47 percent who lived only with a female householder were in poverty, compared to only 10 percent of related children in married couple families. Furthermore, more than half of related children under six in families with a female householder were in poverty. This statistic is four and a half times the percentage of children under the age of six in poverty within married coupled families.
Also, the demographics show that African American children are at a greater risk to be in poverty
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The story worsens when you consider race. African American children are among the largest race group facing child poverty; their rate is 38.2 percent, twice as high as the rate for white children.
As for the success stories that you referred to
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In economics, the cycle of poverty is the "set of factors or events by which poverty, once started, is likely to continue unless there is outside intervention."[1]

The cycle of poverty has been defined as a phenomenon where poor families become trapped in poverty for at least three generations, i.e., for enough time that the family includes no surviving ancestors who possess and can transmit the intellectual, social, and cultural capital necessary to stay out of or escape poverty; in calculations of expected generation length and ancestor lifespan, the lower median age of parents in these families is offset by the shorter lifespans in many of these groups.

Such families have either limited or no resources. There are many disadvantages that collectively work in a circular process making it virtually impossible for individuals to break the cycle.[2] This occurs when poor people do not have the resources necessary to get out of poverty, such as financial capital, education, or connections. In other words, poverty-stricken individuals experience disadvantages as a result of their poverty, which in turn increases their poverty. This would mean that the poor remain poor throughout their lives.[1] This cycle has also been referred to as a "pattern" of behaviors and situations which cannot easily be changed.[3]

The poverty cycle is usually called "development trap" when it is applied to countries.[1]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poverty_cycle

What are the percentage of this poverty cycle? At least 40% in the US (from the same link above) Also pay attention to the bolded text.
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Another paper, titled Do poor children become poor adults?, which was originally presented at a 2004 symposium on the future of children from disadvantaged families in France, and was later included in a 2006 collection of papers related to the theme of the dynamics of inequality and poverty, discusses generational income mobility in North America and Europe. The paper opens by observing that in the United States almost one half of children born to low income parents become low income adults, four in ten in the United Kingdom, and one-third in Canada. The paper goes on to observe that rich children also tend to become rich adults—four in ten in the U.S. and the U.K., and as many as one-third in Canada. The paper argues, however, that money is not the only or even the most important factor influencing intergenerational income mobility. The rewards to higher skilled and/or higher educated individuals in the labor market and the opportunities for children to obtain the required skills and credentials are two important factors. Reaching the conclusion that income transfers to lower income individuals may be important to children in the here in now, but they should not be counted on to strongly promote generational mobility. The paper recommends that governments focus on investments in children to ensure that they have both the skills and opportunities to succeed in the labor market, and observes that though this has historically meant promoting access to higher and higher levels of education, it is becoming increasingly important that attention be paid to preschool and early childhood education.[6]
[quote=gator996;6309562]I find it more than contradictory that those who want no infringement of freedom & liberty by the government want to infringe here and throw the kids on the responsibility of the state.

This statement has the strong smell of someone trolling.
In response to this statement: There are two parties here that have their rights. One party is the parents (or parent) and the other party is the children.
These children are afford the same consideration of ""Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness" and are afford rights by the US Constitution "We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence,promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America".

The situation present in OP shows that the mother (or egg donor) has no concept of what her responsibility is when it comes to in the statement "provide for the common defence,promote the general Welfare" for her 15 children.

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If you're bitchin' about the cost of the welfare the mother wants what can you say about the higher costs of taking her children away.
Actually the cost to the community to keep these children with their mother will be far greater than it would be for the state to put them in a better situation. For one thing the odds of breaking the cycle of poverty are better. Instead of drawing public assistance as an adult and creating the next generation of poverty they will be producers and providers.

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This woman needs education, job skills training, and a job more than any other type of assistance.
I hate to call anyone a loser but in this case that poor mother is a loser.
She most likely needs years of therapy, coaching, and restructuring to be a fit parent. By that time her children will be fully grown. All is not lost in that scenario. She may be rehabilited enough to be a good grand mother to her 30 to 60+ future grand children.

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Personally, I don't think that woman is representative of anything on a large scale...
Other than the hopelessness of poverty, especially when the father has been incarcerated.
In this case the father you referred to is at the most a sperm donor.
You are partially wrong on your statement of misrepresentation. She is the exception when it comes to the number of children but not to the other statistics.

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Prevalence: Single motherhood is very common. Around half of today’s mothers will spend at least some time as the sole custodial parent.

Update: As of 2011, 11.7 million families in the US were headed by a single parent, 85.2% of which were headed by a female.1 Prevalence: Single motherhood is very common. Around half of today’s mothers will spend at least some time as the sole custodial parent.

Update: As of 2011, 11.7 million families in the US were headed by a single parent, 85.2% of which were headed by a female.1
According to The Hamilton Project at the Brookings Institution, the annual earnings single-parent families plummet 20% between 2007 and 2010, compared to only 5% for two-parent families.3

Poverty: Two fifths of single mother families are poor, triple the poverty rate for the rest of the population. Single-mother families are nearly five times as likely to be poor than married-couple families.

The poverty rate for single-mother families is 40.7% compared to 8.8% for married-couple families.4 The majority of poor children are in single mother families with 24% of children now living in such households.5

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Is this woman any more representative than "Octo-Mom" who has 14 kids and lives off of public assistance...

...and yet isn't seen as representative of "leftie" politics, the "ghetto" subculture, etc.

To be honest, I think most of what's written here is because its a black family.
I am not sure what you are getting at here. Are you saying that the Octo-Mom is getting a pass because she is white? If so that assumption is way off the mark. When the first story of the Octo-Mom (she is Assyrian/Iraqi) broke many people were disgusted with her and had concerns for her children. Many people were calling for child protective services and the Octo-Mom was getting a lot of some unwelcomed attention from these people.

[quote=gator996;6309562]Taking the children away, forced adoption, sterilization, lack of morality, lack of god in education, etc. have all been discussed in this thread...

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I just wonder if it was a white poor family of 15, if all of these topics would even have been brought up for discussion?
This black family becomes representative of the "47%" and draws all sort of political criticism but a non-black family like Octomom doesn't become representative a greater portion of white society.
Yes they would because the same objections were raised with the Octo-Mom
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The core problem with this case is that people are just very pissed off at how irresponsible everyone has been in this situation....Nadya, her doctors, her parents and anyone else you can think of who helped to facilitate this.
http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/267414

Also, in the recent news the Octo-Mom is now back on welfare. News that a lot of people do not find amusing.

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Some of what is contained in this thread smacks of the breakup of the black family that occured during slavery.
Actually the breakup of the black family since the 1960's War on Poverty (thanks LBJ) makes the breakup during the slave years look like a family reunion.
Yes family were broken up durning the slave days but not to the degree we saw since the 1960's.
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Old 01-11-2013, 02:05 PM   #83
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Contrary to what you believe...

There are many stories of people who are raised in large poverty stricken famlies that rise to success.

I find it more than contradictory that those who want no infringement of freedom & liberty by the government want to infringe here and throw the kids on the responsibility of the state.

If you're bitchin' about the cost of the welfare the mother wants what can you say about the higher costs of taking her children away.

This woman needs education, job skills training, and a job more than any other type of assistance.

Personally, I don't think that woman is representative of anything on a large scale...
Other than the hopelessness of poverty, especially when the father has been incarcerated.

Is this woman any more representative than "Octo-Mom" who has 14 kids and lives off of public assistance...

...and yet isn't seen as representative of "leftie" politics, the "ghetto" subculture, etc.


To be honest, I think most of what's written here is because its a black family.

Taking the children away, forced adoption, sterilization, lack of morality, lack of god in education, etc. have all been discussed in this thread...

I just wonder if it was a white poor family of 15, if all of these topics would even have been brought up for discussion?


This black family becomes representative of the "47%" and draws all sort of political criticism but a non-black family like Octomom doesn't become representative a greater portion of white society.


Some of what is contained in this thread smacks of the breakup of the black family that occured during slavery.
Cut me a break. Where should I start?

I would guess most kids raised poor who make it big (other than athletes) do not come from the type of background like Angel's kids. They likely know who their daddy is and their mommy was likely married to the guy, at least temporarily.

No one wants the "state" to take over...the "state" has contributed enough to this mess. It is called adoption by placing the kids in foster families or through agencies. Give the kids a fighting chance.

No job training in the world can help this woman...I would be more concerned with breaking the cycle of dependancy for her 15 offspring. Give her a chastity belt and a mop and broom and make her work for her check but give the kids a chance elsewhere.

Octomom was critisized far more than Angel. She was every bit the skank and there is no difference.

And yes, if it was a white family of 15 with the woman making claims of "someone being accountable" the screams would have been louder as some are afraid to critisize as Angel and her little angels are black and the media and other libbie lefty nogginheads scream racisim whenever there is criticism of someone of color like our esteemed goober in the white house.
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Old 01-11-2013, 02:11 PM   #84
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I don't agree but I respect your opinion...

The only thing I have a "problem" with is that you're making an assumption about that woman's morality & spirituality...you don't know.
The poster is making an assumption. However he maybe more on target than you realize.
[quote=gator996;6309686]Question: Do you think that it is moral to bring children into this world knowing that you will not have the means to provide for them and expecting the charity of people and gov't to pick up the slack?


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10 of those kids were the product of her & her husband per the video.

He's incarcerated.
And five of them from some other swinging penis (or penises).
The father, I mean sperm donor, is a jail bird who had no intention in providing for the children he fathered.

Do you call these actions moral.
If now, that is no problem, but then again does she and he get a free pass?

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She doesn't appear to have much education and obviously has been busy having & raising 15 kids...probably not much in the way of job skills either.
No offense but that is not a earth shattering assumption.
What is probably more probable is that her mother and perhaps grand mother were in a similar situation.

The right thing any considerate and sane person would do after the first birth is to:
1, Get on birth control.
2, Get a job and job skills.
3, Hold out for a man who is going to stick around and be responsible in stead of a man who is going to stick it to her.

Not once have you questioned the mental capabilities of this woman.
Please ask your self this question.
What sane woman would want to go through 7 or even 15 pregnancies?
When you get to that answer then ask yourself this question.
Is this woman fit to be a parent?
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Also the problem with "job skills" and "job training" is that it is still a net negative for the tax payers. Daycare/after school care for a family that size would be well over $1000 per week. Maybe she could hire some professional nanny, but that is at best $500 per week.

Even with job training she wouldn't even make enough money to pay for someone else to watch her kids. Obviously that doesn't even factor in food/housing/clothes/etc.
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