Yeah, thanks. It's not even that I view this as daunting as much as I see it as an interesting psychological phenomenon. I've only talked to one other person about this and they had the same experiences = both individuals (in the marriage) are interested and capable of getting in better shape, yet only one is ever activiely engaged in the needed behavior.
I'm pretty competitive by nature as is my coworker who's experiencing the same thing. I wonder if it's an avoidance of spousal competition or something?
I don't know, I'm really not looking to lie on the couch of GC for pyschoanalysis
, just thought I'd throw it out there to see if any one else has seen or experienced this and what that was like - did they overcome - etc. I'd love to take a 20mile ride w/ my wife one day....